An investigator from the current UP3 group, graduating on June 11, stopped by this morning to share how much the workshop has made her reevaluate her life.  She lives in her home with her husband, adult daughter, her daughter's boyfriend, and her 3 grandchildren.  Additionally, she chauffeurs her other adult children who live close-by to work, as far as Malvern and home with the only car they have, which consequently is having front end problems.  Prior to the workshops, she seemed apathetic towards her situation, has a history of struggling with depression and anxiety, and accepted what had become of her life.  When asked during one of the workshops what her passion is, she had no hesitation sharing her life's dreams though putting herself first with an ailing mother in addition to all of her other responsibilities caring for her children and grandchildren has become an immense strain.  Today when she was talking of the group, she had a glow for which I had not ever seen.  She was alive in her animation of describing what she wants her future plan to look like and that includes setting a date with her husband as to when her adult daughter and family need to move from dependence to productive self-sufficiency; to quote the mission of the outreach center.   She is excited but tentative as the formal workshops are coming to an end on Tuesday, June 3.

We have spent every week together since February, at times two times a week, and have shared intimate details of our lives with one another.  We are a family.  It reminds me of Mother Theresa's quote:

" There is so much suffering in the world - physical, material, mental.  The suffering of some can be blamed on the greed of others.  The material and physical suffering is suffering from hunger, from homelessness, from all kinds of diseases.  But the greatest suffering is being lonely, feeling unloved, having no one.  I have come more and more to realize that it is being unwanted that is the worst disease that any human being can ever experience."

Social resources are explored in the workshops and for the majority at the table, people in their
"inner circle" are limited.  Relationships are important, though most often with people also struggling to survive and rarely with those who are able to help "get ahead," who aren't paid (professionals).

When I asked the group earlier this week, "What will you miss the most?," the woman speaking above said she will simply miss just being with adults who genuinely do not want to live in poverty and talk about being stuck despite all of the tireless efforts for a better, more stable life.  Another woman shared prior to participating in the group, she thought everyone received food stamps and never knew there was any other way to live.  Another shared, prior to the group, she would come home after taking her kids to school everyday and take a nap.  Now she awakens at 5:30am to start her day with a new-found gratitude for life and feeling powerful.  Another participant resonated with the previous sentiments and added his apartment feels like a jail at times and is thankful to come to participate and be productive. 

UP3 empowers people. Period.